Friday, August 2, 2013

A Gratitude Attitude!

I felt like writing today and I had a plan to start part two of a blog about why children can be sensitive, but I couldn’t stop thinking about how lucky I am.  I am overcome with such gratitude, joy and love for so many things I just have to write about that today. 

So, why am I so grateful?

Well to start off, I am so grateful to have the most wonderful husband(ish) in the world.  He is the man I have been searching for my whole life.  He is the man I spoke of and wrote about in my journal.  He is the man I knew was out there for me and I am so lucky to have found him! He truly is amazing.  I have tears in my eyes right now as I think about just how much I love him. He is the most patient person I have met.  He has stood by my side and supported me through the times I was not the self he once met, such as my pregnancy and the many after effects of the car accident. He is so open and understanding and communicative about all those issues that are trivial to most men but can be so bothersome to most women. He helps me see the bigger picture and soothes my worrisome mind.  He is trusting, forgiving and compassionate not only to me, but all people that he meets. He is loving, passionate, and tender. He is sweet, sincere, and kind. He laughs at my jokes and I laugh at his.  We have many similar interests there is never a dull moment. He is an amazing father.  He does yoga, cleans, and makes the bed every day, just because. He can cook the most delicious and healthy meals on short notice as if it were nothing.  He sets my soul on fire and calms my soul like the ocean breeze. He is my soul mate, the yang to my yin, sometimes the yin to my yang, and I am so grateful to have him in my life!

I am so grateful to be the mother of the most 2 ½ year old girl.  She is so intelligent I feel as though I am speaking to a 4-6 year old at times. She absorbs things quicker than a sponge. She is incredibly curious about the world around her. She loves to read books and learn new things. She respects nature and has a love for all living creatures (well except those pesky mosquitoes). She is kind and gentle with her friends. She is a great helper and leader of her peers.  She gives the most amazing hugs and neck massages. She isn’t concerned with large expensive toys and can play with 3 Polly Pockets and 2 changes of clothes for an entire weekend.  She has the attention span of a 5 year old yet is still active. She eats her fruits and veggies, and doesn’t know much about the land of sugar and candy. She is creative, imaginative, compassionate, and considerate.  She has a great self-awareness and notices the finest details wherever we go.   She has such an impeccable memory; she is my grocery list app. She has taught me so much about the depth and importance of emotions, children, and life in general. I am so grateful to have given birth to an amazing daughter and I am privileged to watch her grow every day.

I am grateful to have such a large, diverse family. I have a mom and a stepdad who are forgiving and accepting of me and my not so good traits as well as almost anyone they meet. My mom is the best conversationalist in the world and can have the longest conversation with a stranger. She can organize a closet and fold a sheet or a towel like nobody’s business. She is a very strong and determined woman who has shown me many great things about how to be an exceptionally organized and caring mother. My step-dad would give his left arm to a help out a stranger off the street. He is a jokester who can dance a jig and do a mean ‘Bill Cosby’ shuffle.  I have 6 siblings who mean the world to me.  I have an older sister who taught me how to be a big sister at an earlier age. Although we rarely got to see each other growing up, she has always loved me and remembered me every birthday and Christmas. One sister is creative, courageous, and stands up for what she believes, another sister is supportive, humorous, and compassionate.   I have another sister who is accomplished, helpful, and determined and another who is empathetic, amazing with children, and so much fun to hang out with.  I have a brother who is generous, loving, and passionate. I am so grateful to have a family who is so fun to hang out with, forgiving of mistakes we all make, and who teach me every day whether they mean to or not that love and spending time together is the most important thing in life.  

I am so appreciative of having the most caring friends.  I have a friend who listens without judgement, shares from the heart, and is the most generous person I know. I have another friend who tells it like it is, helps me see the bigger picture, is gentle, patient, humorous, magnetic, and mesmerizing. I have another friend who is honest, grounded, compassionate, strong, level headed, and generous.  I have another friend who is adventurous, fun, caring, and sweet. I have another friend who will stop at nothing to pursue her dreams, lets nothing hold her back, listens with her whole soul, and can keep up to my dancing.  I have many friends and acquaintances who share their thoughts and feelings and teach me how to be a better person.  I meet many new people who help give me new perspectives on life and various topics.  I am so grateful to have met such wonderful friends, acquaintances, and even strangers who I can share my thoughts, hearts desires, and that I can learn so much from.

I am extremely fortunate to be able to work in the comfort of my home. I am so blessed to be able to witness the miracle of other amazing young children grow and learn. I have the luxury of teaching curious toddlers based on their interests rather than to a test and without writing report cards based on the results. I get to go for wagon rides, play at various parks, build towers, play with Polly Pockets, line up Hot Wheels, paint, colour, play with Play-Doh, do puzzles, practice my photography skills with cute kids, dress up, play make-believe, have pretend picnics, dance to Pocket Full of Sunshine and many fun kids songs, do kids yoga, sing off key without judgement, read literally hundreds of new kid’s books every month, explore and express my imagination and encourage them to do so too in fun and creative ways. AND if I needed one, I can have a nap during most nap times! I am so grateful to have the opportunity of raising my child and that other parents give me the honor of being their child’s care giver while they are at work.

I am also grateful for so many random things; I have an amazing God who loves me no matter what happens and forgives me no matter what I do.  I have a mind/body that tells me what I need whenever I am willing to connect with it. I live in beautiful country with a jazzy, fun-spirited city that has fresh water and ample opportunities. We rent the cutest townhouse condo in a great neighbourhood and will soon be buying a cozy little house. We have wonderful paths for biking and walking close by. I have fresh basil plants growing out back. I picked up a brand new Magic Bullet from a garage sale for $20.  I am so appreciative to have received 3 garbage bags of really nice clothes.  We have a nice vehicle. The new Circle Drive overpass is amazing and will allow me to visit my sisters in half the time. I love that I’m able to read and learn about new things and that I can share this knowledge with other people. I can learn from the many amazing authors who publish their stories to share with the world. To be able to go to a library that provides so much material for free. I bought a new pillow that fits me just right.  I am thankful for Raffi and Charlie Hope, and other children's musicians, great parenting books,  the internet, farmers, and health food stores. I am grateful for long weekends, all genres of music, cell phones, stickers, coloured paper, sunny days, green grass, blue skies, foliage and colourful flowers.

I am grateful to be me.  I’m thankful to have had 37 years’ worth of experiences.  I love that I am passionate about life.  I appreciate my ability to forgive others easily, my free-spirited nature, open-mindedness, willingness to understand another person’s viewpoint, be brutally honesty, and see the positive of the worst situations.   I adore my straightforwardness, trustworthiness, organizational skills and care of nature.  I love that I seek information to better myself and share that knowledge with others and that I try to make healthy, natural choices in eating and living.   I love my dancing skills, my painting/drawing ability, sense of humour, and my big juicy bum. I’m thankful for all those awful, hurtful, awkward, worrisome, drawn out, and painfully rough transitional moments I have endured because I know those are the moments that have made me appreciate life even more, be a stronger, wiser, and more grateful person.    

With all this love and joy of life it’s difficult to contain it!
 
 
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